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I’m Shelby
This is my story...
I have always wanted to have my own business. My family is entrepreneurial by nature, however I felt like I was left behind for a while because I didn't know what my purpose was going to be. And then heartache hit. My family almost split up and I found myself in the greatest amount of disconnect and emotional pain I had ever experienced so far in my life. I had been through breakups and deaths but this offered a whole new level of pain for me.
I needed something that made me feel better and so I started my own personal growth journey that began with affirmations and 5 minute meditations. Then I got introduced to crystals and saw my intuition guide me for the first time. I went into a crystal store and couldn't take my eyes off this one, orange sparkly crystal called Monk's Gold. When I read the description of the properties, I was floored at how accurate it was for what I needed in my life at that moment.
Next a friend of mine asked if she could practice reiki on me, which I knew little about at the time. I said yes and had such beautiful and unreal experience that I knew this is something I also wanted to pursue. I was learning that we are more connected to the world in an intangible way that I had never believed until experiencing reiki. I went through and did my levels and kept getting shown that I could be a conduit for healing, that my intuition was reliable and would guide me if I chose to trust and listen.
As I did reiki, I loved the experiences it offered however I found that it wasn't the full healing solution. It helped, it gave beautiful messages and it guided people into what it was that they needed to work on. But then all that left my clients with were questions of how to continue their healing on their own.
That is when I was led to the coaching certification that I did. I started doing my own healing with the work from this school and saw myself become healed and more secure within months. I knew this was the answer to the questions reiki kept offering up. The attachment theory certification came out 10 months after I had begun my journey with this school and I completed it. My first client who hadn't done any personal development before, was hooked and saw the value in the weekly sessions we did immediately.
Simply put, I love helping people to heal. I love seeing transformation and I get to see that by doing this job.
My expertise in intimacy and sexuality comes from various aspects of my life. I have always been interested in reproduction and sexuality. The whole aspect of creation and pleasure of life.
I have explored the embodiment of sensuality through pole dance weekly since 2015. It has become the way I express my emotions, my creativity and sexuality and some of the lessons and teachings I share will come from my dance experience and lessons.
I have experience and knowledge in the realms of both kink and tantra.
With kink I look at it as a beautiful way of diving into the healing of shame and of shadows. Reclaiming yourself and your power. I love the depth of honesty, intimacy, and consent conversations that have to go on in these relationships and how it can really facilitate beautiful personal growth and healthy relationships when done right.
(Which is what my coaching will do !)
Tantra is where I touch the more energetic and emotional aspects of intimacy.